Everything and everyone dreams, they may not remember that they dreamed. A fetus still in the mother’s womb has REM (rapid eye movement) from the Delta Dream Realm that can be seen on Ultra sound. REM is when the eye tracks a dream. It begs the question, is the fetus seeing angels? Over time, we often forget how to remember our dreams. My free Guidebook can help with this.

My inner guides/physician-within did not tell me to seek a holistic practitioner- they told me to go to the hospital. If they had said, “Go find Swami-wami rama langa ding-dong,” I would have gone. Obviously, they had faith in my doctors and got me to the right ones. The same thing is true with relationships. You are going to have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your Prince, so get out your wart cream and pucker up. Relationships are a learning experience for everyone.

1.) Learn-never stop learning; use/exercise your brain; keep your mind sharp.

2.) Adjust with the changing times- technology. Keep up!

3.) Stay in the Middle of the Road of life; it is common ground.

4.) “The greatest wealth is health. ~Virgil. Give yourself play-time.

Our gut-instincts have been speaking to humans since the beginning of time. Instincts guided first humans as they worked as a team for food. Our relationships at work affect our daily life and future just as much now. We’ve been taught to replace our instincts with hard facts.

Have you ever walked into an important meeting and felt something was wrong and dismissed those feelings as your nervousness? What if it was not you? What if you were “intuitively reading” the room and picked up something out of balance. The same is true for sexual relationships. The red flags are there. They are brought to our attention again in dreams, yet our logical mind talks us out of paying attention to our dreams and instincts because they are not based on facts. It is time to start listening to ourselves again.

Dreams can be messages from the “other side” or just entertainment. We know the difference by validation. Red flags are validation. You know when a dream is prophetic when you can validate it with facts. I often said to my doctors, “Prove me wrong.” The tests they performed to prove me wrong proved I was right and validated my dreams. The same technique can be used with relationships.

A.)My dreams saved my life twice and shook the medical field to the core. There were two dreams that were particularly important.

I was 40 years old and my physical, blood test and mammogram had come back healthy and negative for cancer but I had a dream that told me I was sick with breast cancer. I could feel a lump but no one else could. Three mammograms and four blood tests later I had a dream called:

1) The White Feather

A spirit guide appeared and handed me a feather and told me to immediately return to my doctor, without making an appointment, and ask for exploratory surgery. If I remembered the feather from my dream and used it as a sward to fence with against his arguments, I would win.

I returned to my doctor the next day, imagined holding the feather in my fingers and convinced him to do exploratory surgery. A lump was found. Pathology stated it was stage 2 aggressive DCIS ductile carcinoma in situ. A second surgery was performed to check for clean margins and cancer was found in my lymph node.

2.) The Clowns

Five years later, almost to the day, I had a mammogram read in front of me by a radiologist at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.. “Congratulations. You’re healthy go home,” he said.

“No, you’re not,” a voice in my head answered. “Tell him to look at the second mammogram.” So, I did. The doctor told me that was not the breast that had had cancer and to go home. So, I did. That night I had the dream: “The Clowns”.

A guide dressed as a nurse held my mammograms in one hand, pointed to them, and motioned to me to come closer and look. When I did she turned into a giant clown with curly red hair and huge shoes. I returned to the hospital and began demanding an MRI. It took me 4 months to get the MRI I needed to prove to the medical field again that I had cancer, and it was stage 4- 9×11 cmlobular. The Tamoxifen had stopped working, which it can do after 2 years. I took the chemo CMF, had radiation and a double mastectomy.

It has been 12 years since my first cancer and 7 since my second. I had many dreams during my crisis that received validation. That is why it is so important to remember and write your dreams down in a dream journal beside your bed.

Have you ever walked into an important meeting and felt something was wrong and dismissed those feelings as your nervousness? What if it was not you? What if you were “intuitively reading” the room and picked up something out of balance. The same is true for sexual relationships. The red flags are there. They are brought to our attention again in dreams, yet our logical mind talks us out of paying attention to our dreams and instincts because they are not based on facts. It is time to start listening to ourselves again.

Dreams can be messages from the “other side” or just entertainment. We know the difference by validation. Red flags are validation. You know when a dream is prophetic when you can validate it with facts. I often said to my doctors, “Prove me wrong.” The tests they performed to prove me wrong proved I was right and validated my dreams. The same technique can be used with relationships.